Me Time - Is it a work at home Mummy Myth?

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This is a question I pondered today as my husband and I sit over our computers, run in and out of the house and try and meet all the deadlines. Scheduled into my day is time for my child, time to work, time to cook and time to clean but what about me time....

It sounds funny to say that we need to schedule me time but we do we need to allow time for us to be in our days and it is not or no longer should be at Work at Home myth  so how do we do it.

Prioritise your life

It is essential that you spend some time reflecting on all that you are doing. In the midst of not even having enough time to sit down for a cup of coffee, making time to reflect can seem like a big evil monster waiting under the bed. However it is not that scary and what you will find is a cute fluffy rabbit when we end.

Look carefully at all of the things you are currently doing and determine which are the most important. Look at what is important to you as well as your business and family. It is time to create order to figure out which things you really must do now, which things can wait and which things you can let go of (scary thought you can you know)

Combine tasks to get some me and family time:

Some of your many tasks can be combined. Taking a walk with baby (and partner?) after work will give you some time together and also a chance to stretch and exercise. You can provide a safe place on the floor in the kitchen for your child to play, observe and talk with you while you are fixing dinner. Taking a bath together is one way some families enjoy time together. Sometimes the activities will take longer, doing them together, but will be well worth the effort.

Simplify Things

A baby is only a baby for one time which means, your house will be a mess, people will come over unannounced and your baby will want to spend time with you

Spend time with your baby. Clear a path through your house so you can get on the floor and hang-out and enjoy your baby. It is amazing how blocks can be such a stress reliever. You build you achieve, baby tears it down and you laugh!

Very simple, nutritious meals can be thrown together quickly. Sandwiches, smoothies, quesadillas, there are many options for 15 minutes or under dinner prep.

Remember being a work at home Mum is a Balancing Act.

We may never find a moment in we feel perfectly caught up on all the things they expect that we should do. If you consider this a normal state you can learn to relax about it. Balance isn't something you necessarily find as a parent, it is something you are always moving towards.

One week you will get lots of good things done at work and the house will be a wreck. Balance doesn't happen in any one instant, but it can happen in the long run.  The most important thing is that Me Time and Family Time do exist for the Work at Home Mum.


Linda Reed-Enever

Director at Media Connections

Publicist and Marketing Consultant Linda Reed-Enever lives and breathes publicity with a passion for connecting; everything from people to ideas. Linda is the Principal Director at ThoughtSpot PR and Media Connections and with her ‘can do’ attitude and entrepreneurial spirit she inspires and motivates as she connects people and opportunity. Linda’s innate ability to network and think on her feet has positioned her as a dynamic leader in the communications arena.

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Genie Bouchard

Genie Bouchard , Creative Writer at 7DollarEssay

Well, If someone prioritizes their work then it can not be a problem for them. Many of my Co-workers do freelance work, even I am a doing content writing for many online essays companies like 7$ Essay Sometimes I felt exaggerated but I still enjoy myself whatever I m doing. People around us thinks that we are retards but in a real life, we are equally enjoying our lives as they are enjoying. I will never discourage anyone not to run a business from home. It's all up to an individual that how he managed his life and make it balanced.

Vladimir Sam

Vladimir Sam ,

I do not belong to the type of those women who care about their careers who are ready to tear their throats at work and linger until late to cut more dough from deals. I do not belong to those who want to be on par with men and there is at any mention of housewives and that a woman has a place in the kitchen.I remember the past times, when a man earned money and had no questions for his wife, his wife created homeliness, was engaged in raising children and his upbringing.I want the same. U can read abou it on https://homeworkneeded.com/blog/how-does-college-work