How a Big Ego Can Effect Your Business Success

How a Big Ego Can Effect Your Business Success


So in order for me to give you a better understanding of this story and how it all boils down to business culture and marketing regardless of how big or small your business is, I will need to give you a rundown of my wardrobe.

Due to the agency’s black and yellow branding, more than a quarter of my wardrobe looks like a bee painted it. I have numerous jackets, suit dresses, coats, scarves and all sorts of other dry cleanable items. Dry cleaner galore – hive style.

For authenticity purposes, you can view a snippet of my wardrobe below.

Marketing | Is Your Ego Too Big For Your Business?

So two days ago, I found myself in an annoying situation – I couldn’t find a clean jacket to wear to Melbourne’s flagship marketing event – Small Business Big Marketing.

Although this problem might seem quite small and insignificant to most people, I wanted this problem solved. So – I grabbed all the stuff that I needed dry cleaned and chucked it in a large dress bag, I had in mind to get one little black jacket dry cleaned for the next day, the rest could wait.

Around noon my large dress bag in hand I go to the local shopping centre which has a main dry cleaner and I open up my bag in front of the owner explaining that I need this little jacket dry cleaned if possible for tomorrow.

I knew that this might not be possible and I was prepared to move to plan B (more shopping) if required.

I go up to the counter and explain my issue and the response is “No I can’t help you, I need to fit this in within the plans of my business and this doesn’t fit in until Friday afternoon... maybe.”

I will not elaborate on the rudeness of the exchange but I’d rather point out something that fascinated me: I had another 12 items or so in this large bag – it was clear that I dry clean a lot and that satisfying me or at least being friendly and approachable might mean some repeat business which dry cleaners thrive on.

What Provoked This Response?

What provoked this reaction (which led to a negative business outcome) and how can these mistakes be avoided? I believe it was ego and blinkers.

1. Ego

Many businesses are bottom-line focused or process-focused rather than customer-focused, the ‘they need us’ mentality. Too many business owners make their business about them and how they feel.

Nowadays the business which will succeed and thrive will be the business which is entirely customer-focused. Customers and their needs come first and solutions are created accordingly – we are here to solve a problem. What happens if we don’t? There is a myriad of choice out there for customers to pick from.

2. Blinkers

I call them the ‘business blinkers’ – the inability to pick up customer cues and see how much additional business you can get from a client because you are so focused on your own feelings during the exchange.

This business owner was focused on the one jacket and didn’t pick up that I had many more items to dry clean – at $10.00 an item – that’s $120.00 of dry cleaning every fortnight. Understanding your sales process is a key component of your business success.

You want to understand how and why your customer shops, when they will need you, where do they go before and after transacting with you and ultimately – use that information to solve their problem and build a long term relationship in view of repeat business.


My story ended with me going to a store and grabbing yet another jacket and many other items – which are also to be dry cleaned – so should I say that my local dry cleaner has a thing or two to learn about marketing?

Marketing is everything you do and everything you don’t do – from branding to customer service. I hope that my dry cleaning adventure illustrated the importance of this statement, have a think about it next time you have this one go at landing a new client.

Would you like to know how you can improve your approach? Get in touch with me and I will be glad to help.

Sharon Latour

Queen Bee/CMO at

I hail from Mauritius, an idyllic island off the coast of Africa and moved Down Under as an international student. Being in a corporate job wasn't for me so I took my own path with $450 in the bank. I've always been passionate about SMEs and after seeing so many struggle digitally, I founded Marketing Bee. We are Australia's first cloud-based marketing department, providing digital production, social media strategy, web development and everything in between for our clients here and overseas.

Comments (3)
Jacquie Baker

Jacquie Baker, Co-founder at

I tried giving this articles 4 stars, as I though it had some great insights. Please don't think it was only a 2 star article.

Phil Khor

Phil Khor, Founder at

What a great post Sharon. This was a while back when I had a very similar experience to yours. I was travelling for business and needed to get some dry cleaning done, but the hotel I was staying at gave me the run around and a long list of reasons why they couldn't help me. Yep, they were egoistic and had their blinkers on alright. I was so furious I checked out and checked into another hotel, and everything was sorted out without delay. Their customer service was a stark contrast to the previous one. Since then, I had everyone in my immediate team (over 50) always checked into the new hotel when they travel. The word got out, and over time, many in my firm (Big 5) made the swap too. Imagine how much that first hotel lost out. I'm not talking about what happens when we get to throw our weight around, but that there are serious consequences when businesses pretend to get away with poor customer service and complacency. As business owners, we really need to be careful how we come across to our customers. When I had businesses who tell me that they have so much business they had to turn customers away, it really gets up my nose. In contrast, I have had businesses who despite not being able to help, would go out of their way to refer me to someone else whom they know and trust. They would even call me up from time to time - just to make sure I was still being looked after. Who do you think I would go back to, or refer others to? Doing business is all about relationships, not the bottom line. Henry Ford once said "A business absolutely focused on customer service will only have one worry about profits; they will be embarrassingly large." Thanks for sharing.

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